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Q: Girls get all these toys....What do guys get?  What's a prostate massager?

A:  So girls have a G-spot (we'll talk about that some other time), the most comparable thing guys have is the P-spot - basically the prostate.  The prostate gland is located between the bladder and the penis, behind the rectum.  The prostate is a gland about the size of a walnut and can be massaged using a toy like a prostate massager.

You may also know prostate massagers as anal plugs or dildos, P or male G-spot massagers.  Some vibrate, others don't.  You can get them in a variety of materials ranging from steel to super soft silicone.  For the kinkier among us, there are medical devices intended to stimulate the prostate.

With use, some men experience a non-ejaculatory orgasm which I'm told, most guys call the 'Super O' and is apparently the most amazing feeling.

So the next question might be, how to get your lady to help you out?  I probably wouldn't jump straight into toys for most women - some might get a little scared.  Have her start with with simply massaging around your anus with her finger, work up to a finger insertion (make sure your fingers are clean, nails trimmed and use LOTS of lube!).  As both of you grow more comfortable you can start introducing toys - starting small of course.

Here are couple options for you to try out:

Je Joue Nuo

Njoy Pure Wand

Njoy Fun Wand (this one works for both men & women!)