Okay girls, I know that we all struggle with some aspect of our body image. Body image and confidence go hand in hand for a lot of women. There are women who are a size 00 that are uncomfortable with their bodies and there are plus sized women with curves to dies for that also struggle with confidence. That being said, there isn’t a single one of us that couldn’t benefit from a boost in confidence. 

Naturally Apologetic

Women balance a crazy number of tasks such as: jobs, relationships, appointments, commitments, wrenches thrown into plans, etc. There is a constant demand for our attention. We tend to put others needs in front of our own, and when we don’t, we get guilty and selfish and so we end up apologizing for something that we don’t need to apologize for. There is a confidence gap that holds women back. Being over-apologetic can feed into this. There is a great article called “The Confidence Gap“ (if you have time, I definitely recommend the read) where the writer points out “A lack of confidence informs a number of familiar female habits. Take the penchant many women have for assuming the blame when things go wrong, while crediting circumstance—or other people—for their successes. (Men seem to do the opposite.)” And one way women assume the blame is by apologizing when they do no need to (I am SO guilty of this!).

Take Back Your Confidence

Of course, buying a new pair of jeans that hug your curves or getting that makeup palette you have been wanting forever, or treating yourself with a mani pedi are great treats to make you feel confidence, but those feelings don’t last for very long and then you fall back into a cycle that is mundane and draining. It is easy to find yourself in a rut and many of us have been there before but let’s break the cycle by taking some time and seeing that you deserve so much more! An easy way to get that started is just by sending me a chat. Clients feel comfortable with me and getting to know you before you step in front of the camera will ensure that you will feel comfortable before your session. 

What Boudoir Can Do For You

I am proud to say that after every session, my clients see themselves in a new light and have a newfound sense of confidence. The photos that I take will show you how beautiful and powerful you really are! 

It is okay to be selfish sometimes, so take some time and come and do a session with me that you can get that initial boost to learn to love who YOU are! The experience is lifechanging, so come find out for yourself.